Self-pity. Too much of it.
The people who hate drama hitherto they are always in the thick of it. I cut them out of my life real fast.
Coasting through life on someone else’s work/ dollar.
People who won’t shut the fuck up.
Gossip. Girls who are find themselves able to talk shit about other parties drive me crazy. I really don’t give a shit about what Becky did to Jennifer. Please stay out of other people’s shit.
Negativity and disbelief about everything. I know a couple of people who simply refuse to enjoy their lives, and I do my best to avoid them.
The you should know why I’m mad/ I’m fine posture followed by sulking. I fortunately haven’t had to deal with it yet in a relationship and I don’t plan to put up with it in the future.
Girls acting dumb or professing they’re dumb to seem cute. Grow up.
People who fantasize all the problems in their own lives were caused by someone else.
I feel guilty for saying it, but the basic bitch persona.
Mac n cheese love, pizza idolization, Han Solo season. All of those scream, I never developed a personal identity.
Anyone who flaunts being an asshole/ bitch. Why do so many people find this attractive? And then they say You only can’t manage my franknes! Okay, yeah, that’s it.
Humblebraggers. You know, I’m so broke after my fantastic European vacation! Guys are always telling me how hot I am-I dislike it!
No drive to better themselves. No motivation to do more than they already are. I’ve met way too many people like that and its 0% attractive. You can be accepting and affectionate of yourself, and still strive to improve yourself.
If you can’t treat me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best good. No thanks.
Oh wow, you’re a genuinely nice person. Let’s see what practices I can take advantage of your genu nature.
People who are ever contact you to complain. I’m sorry your life is shitty, and I do want to be there for you, but blaze. I’m not your friend if you exclusively ever talk to me to bitch, I’m a healer who isn’t getting paid.
Lie, lie lie. Your lips are movin so you lie lie lie lie. Hate lying. I have two parties in “peoples lives” who are liars. One lies to avoid responsibility or blamed and one lies to pump up her tales and reach herself look good. Employed to call them on their shit, but that’s exhausting! Now I exactly change the subject.
Neediness. I like sovereignty in a woman. So there is nothing that harasses me more than a woman who invariably acquires me stop what I’m doing to pay attention to her.
A little is penalty. but when it’s all day, every day, 24/7 you literally can’t let me piss without wanting to come to the lavatory with me, that is a bit to much for me.
Stinginess. Bad tip-off. Possessive with belongings. Hanging on to a bunch of garbage.
Doesn’t matter to me.
Eww … Their breading is weird.
No way, I’ll be shitting myself all darknes!
Im certainly not in the mood for fast food.
No, that’s burgers. That’s too much like fast food.
Ugh, I simply eat there last week.
I’ll exactly be hungry an hour later.
The only thing I like there is the steak, and I’m trying to stay away from red meat.
Anywhere’s fine. You decide.
Not wanting to admit when they don’t know something. I don’t know isn’t that hard to say, and not knowing something doesn’t mean you’re automatically stupid. But pretending to know something when you don’t does tell me that you’re an selfish idiot.
I don’t know what to call it but I will give two examples. There was a follower in my college conversation class who was in his 50 s. He struggled to catch up with the rest of the class but he was persistent. And there was this girlfriend in class who would perpetually make fun of this serviceman among her friends for being slow and age-old. Whatever tone she has, I find that particularly unattractive in a person.
Telling me every thorough item about their day, which i find interesting and I’m happy to discuss, but then NEVER asking me about my day or nursing any interest in my stories when I tell them. It just kinda hurts sometimes. Like, I have an interesting life, too. Satisfy ask about it so I feel included.
Asking for admonition when they’re really looking for validation.
Hey do you think this is a good feeling?
No, maybe not.
WHY DON’T YOU EVER BACK ME UP ON ANYTHING !?
When they try to obligate you resentful just to get more attention.
Lack of perseverance. Get enraged after something annoys them merely a little bit. The attitude of speedy rage is annoying and at times overwhelming.
Making condones, or, they are never in the wrong.
I own up to my mistakes, I make sure to defend if I am in the wrong. People who go through living and always have an excuse for the shit that happens to them, or that they do. I can not stand them.
You have not gotten burnt from 7 jobs in 5 months because all the managers were shit and envious of you Becky. You got fired because you’re a shit worker.
You are late for every occasion All the time ? Do not come up with a new forgive every time. It wasn’t because your hound was sick, you got stuck behind a slow truck, there was transaction. Yes that stuff happens, it doesn’t happen Every day. You are late because you don’t care about being here in time. You don’t plan accordingly.
You don’t know why your boyfriend left you. Hmmm can’t possibly be because you chiselled on him? Oh you didn’t cheat on him? I could have sworn I saw you making out with a person that wasn’t him. You don’t know what I’m talking about ?? Yeah, all right.
I do not hang out with people like this. I currently work with a person like this. He preserves inviting my husband and I to hang out, and I say no every time. People like this are toxic.
The simple and shocking lack of interest in learning and experiencing brand-new things.
People that make it a item of pride to tell you that they’ll tell you EXACTLY how they’re sympathy or that they are as blunt as it comes. These beings often disorient truthfulness/ honest with downright rudeness. Also in the same vein, parties that never fail to offer their unsolicited mind in every single situation.
Oh my gosh I have no money
PLAYING. WITH YOUR GODDAMN. PHONE. WHILE I’M TALKING TO YOU. Give that event away, my gazes are up here.
Mistreating parties in the service industry. When you’re being a total asshole to a attendant, or teller, or fast food employee, it does not shape the object of your tendernes fantasize, Wow, he/ she is clearly superior to them. I don’t care if you’re rich, or smart, or privileged. If you consider other human being as boors who are beneath you, I only is of the view that so incredibly ugly.
Flakiness. At this quality if you flake once without holding a 24 -hours notice, and I’ve known you for less than a few months, I’ll likely not talk to you again. It’s incredibly impertinent to my period, specially if my proposes revolved around you. I understand if shit happens and “weve got to” reschedule, but I literally have had instances where women have canceled 15 instants before for some BS reason.
Saying how ugly “theyre about” when they know they are good-looking. I see it very often and shit clears me mad every time.
People who belief their feeling apologizes their actions. I don’t give a damn that you’re hungry, if you pierce my head off over an innocuous explanation, then you’re an asshole.
I hate the infatuation with booze or medicines. I understand having a good time and a beer or two but when you drink for the sole purpose of getting shit faced or constantly brag about smoking weed it’s just a clue to me that you’re too digesting to hang out with if there aren’t medications or booze. I’m 22 and regrettably this describes too many parties I meet.
When beings take a lot of selfies and/ or post them on social media. To me it’s either a sign of self-absorption or low-pitched self-esteem/ being frantic for public approving, both of which are a huge turnoff.
Amongst people, especially young guys there’s always this need to be competitive or show off. This manifests itself in many ways. You see it in carries of raucous frat busters in social specifies or even guys trying to collaborate on something as insignificant as say igniting a volley when you’re all camping. They chide one another over surface of one another, act informed or be bossy, grouted with usual reviles. This behavior is always amplified when women are around and it’s probably specially there as a young dude of women.
Throwing your friends under the bus as you compete for women is lame. Competitive behavior is also eject, it ruffles me to witness or be around.
I am the oldest of five boys. I grew up with that shit my whole living and pick up on it like it’s instinct now. I’m not a devotee, it’s annoying to appreciate or be dragged into.
That Valley Girl, vocal fry articulation that so many girlfriends seem to have. Drives me crazy.
Speaking every convict with rising inflection as if it is a question.
Entitlement. I know too many women who think they are entitled to concepts from people, specially their development partners. Usually money, freebies or notice. You can even take it to the level of exactly women who feel entitled to be treated differently like a special little snowflake, different to people, because they have two X chromosomes.
People who ostracize negative and pessimistic vitality in almost all see. I’m the kind of person who loves to get excited about thoughts, like a new movie or a game, and I want to share that exhilaration with parties. When they routinely react by pointing everything wrong and bad about any thrown act, it leaves me with a sour intuition. Even when they’re right, I can’t help but contemplate, what’s wrong with experiencing something in spite of its flaws?
Try dating in your 30 s and observing a girl that doesn’t have a drinking problem.
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